Today I met with our Whakapono group. It's a group of 8 or 9 Year 7/8 students that one of us, SLT, will meet with on a weekly basis for some kind of mentoring, and the social and emotional growth (we hope).
Each week we'll use the value of the week, i.e. the value from WHAKAPONO school values to explore various topics of interest or current issues- for these learners, our school, or what's going on in the world around us at the moment. The approach is one of Talanoa or Wananga- these learners had a basic understanding of those concepts, and I simply put it, that it's about talking...allowing ourselves to talk about issues without trying to be right, but just being open to what comes out of those conversations.
Today we considered Hiranga- Striving for Excellence. The group was presented with the issue that the board has to consider, i.e. one group of parents are saying sports for primary aged kids should just be about participation, and one are saying sports needs to be about giving our kids opportunities for competition. The key points that came out of our talanoa included:
- Agreement that for younger kids the focus should be on participation- getting them involved, seeing what they liked, not worrying about winning so much, having fun and with their friends;
- But as kids get older, they need to push themselves, keep learning, work out that even when you try your best you may not win that time
- Is competition a bad thing? If not, then when can it become unhealthy?
- What does competing or striving for excellence do for us/ people?
- What would happen if we removed competition altogether from sports?
- When is it appropriate not to compete?
- We might not grow, learn, or get stronger;
- We deny ourselves of the opportunity to engage with others, have fun and learn alongside them;
- We might just become stagnant, and worse still stuck in that comfortable place
- We're supposed to continually strive to make this world and ourselves a better place, a better people.